Married for more than 10 years now and the great thing about our relationship has always been that we are both equally kinky. Sex is suppose to be fun as well, no plain vanilla! And it's also all about giving and receiving. For instance: Both of us go down on the other whenever asked for just as both of us happily get either all naked or skimpy dressed up and pose for the other... Although I doubt you'd like to see a bunch of happy hubby pictures, but that really doesn't matter. Being somewhat of an exhibitionist, knowing anyone may see me naked in a variety of humiliating positions is a HUGE turn on. Almost better than us having sex with the blinds open. My number one sexual fantasy though, is having a chair of sorts with a big hole (like a toilet seat) out on the balcony so that my significant other can lick me all around from down there while people are walking by... ;p